Things I learned during my years with Bob

[Margaret(Marge) Wetherell Maycoc]

The main things after 25 years...That most of us fear death and lot of us are asleep. That we die how we live..Practice scrupulous self care..attachment can be addiction. It is our birthright to love ourselves just because we are here amd just as we are..Taking care of ourselves is taking care of our family;partner,children,grandchildren,friends,pets..We are here to enjoy all of this on Earth..We are here to laugh, have a good time, to play.. most all relationships take some work..That we do not have to settle for anything...We should never give our power away to others or allow anyone to harm us...That we are all incredibly special and deserve the best that life has to offer...That sometimes people who are not our family of origin can be like family...to use our resources with awareness ..that there can sometimes be unintentional consequences as a result of our own actions..to appreciate the absurdity of writing poetry to the absurdity of not writing poetry...to "look into the eye of the tiger" when feeling fear...if you have a panic attack be like the ones who live in the deserts and fold up the sides of the tent and let the winds come through...They will eventually stop..

[Margaret(Marge) Wetherell Maycoc]

Bhasa, Thank you so much. This website is such a gift and to be able to communicate with you and others who loved Bob..My best friend Susan and I have both seen him for the same length of time and he was been present for us through many life changes. I am not sure my life would be what it is if I hadn't known Bob. He spoke of you often through the years...Much Love and hope to connect again..Marge...Love to Nina

[bhasa leona]

marge, so beautiful to read and be re-minded, so familiar and so personal for each of us. love...