Margaret(Marge) Wetherell Maycoc's Blog (14)

Hello, I am thinking of Bob and of all of you tonight and wishing you well..Love, Marge Maycock..

Another interesting book is "Summer's Path" by Scott Blum..It is about the fine line between life and death..

Hello, I felt compelled to share a short but powerful book I just read; "True Love" A Practice for Awakening the Heart" by Thich Nhat Hanh. In it contains, "the 4 aspects of love, Love is "being there",recognizing the presence of the other,being there when someone is suffering, overcoming pride, deep listening, learning to speak with love again,restoring peace within yourself, and the energy of mindfulness,etc. It covers and encompasses, in my opinion, almost every essential detail for living… Continue

This website has been such place for healing and comfort for me especially to share with each other recently and over the last year. I have loved reading what everyone has written about their experiences with and feelings about Bob;the beautiful,funny,and the sad. I love the pictures,too.Thank you all for everything. Love, Marge Continue

You are not like him

I suspected that

You were just like him

Someone I could trust

A true shining light

Of perpetual "thereness"

I cannot judge you

For being a beast

It's in all of us

You let me down hard

It doesn't mean much

It is my own job

To have the whole world

To believe in peace

The rain will still rain

The mountains still…

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Redirect my heart
For it cannot think
Show it a new way
A new nothingness

Redirect my soul
To it's rightful path
Amidst the waters
Of the mountain streams
Towards it's forever

Redirect my mind
To a right purpose
To correct focus
To a better place
Let it happen now

Redirect my love
As a conduit
For the highest good
I still need your help

" I am kind of a paranoic in reverse: I suspect people of plotting to make me happy"

Some of you may be able to relate to this if you knew Bob and had seen him as a client as I long as I had. I have been thinking about some of my previous sessions lately with Bob from a long time ago and have been writing them down. At one point in the '80's, he used some Ericksonian hypnosis and neurolinguistic programming techniques with me to help oversome panic attacks without medication. This was when he had his office on Bouchelle St. in Morganton. With the help of the fish tank bubbles,… Continue

You have been gone
A while now
But still with us,too. So many things...
Have come up..I miss driving down there.
I have made mistakes.
I remember your wisdom,your nonjudgementalism
So hard to practice with myself
I have to now.
I could laugh with you
I could cry with you
You always helped me remember to love myself
No matter what
You helped more than anyone
You touched all of our lives
I love you,Bob...miss you

Dear Friends and Family of Bob, Just wanted to visit and say hello and send well wishes. I have not been on in a while. I continue to try and apply all I have learned from Bob in my life as dilemmas, of course, come about as they do,sometimes small and some very seemingly big....I try and think of what Bob would say, I read spiritual literature, and talk to friends. Noone will ever, that I know of, come again in the way he did to help. Accepting his absence and feeling that has been so very… Continue

Hi, I am Marge who wrote a blog about my 25 years of therapy with Bob...I have to say that each thing I had mentioned there has become an even greater challenge for me now especially since Bob left. He told me if I ever get off the path I really want to be on that it was not as important as getting back on...I know that many of us may struggle with similar things and today I got to speak with Anna about that who said, it is all pretty much "life". I agree and it helped me remember the big… Continue

You have not been gone
Just stepped out for a while
I think you're still here
Maybe a bird flying


by Marge

The main things after 25 years...That most of us fear death and lot of us are asleep. That we die how we live..Practice scrupulous self care..attachment can be addiction. It is our birthright to love ourselves just because we are here amd just as we are..Taking care of ourselves is taking care of our family;partner,children,grandchildren,friends,pets..We are here to enjoy all of this on Earth..We are here to laugh, have a good time, to play.. most all relationships take some work..That we do… Continue

Dear Friends of Bob, I hope to connect with many of you you who and loved Bob. I had to go to California during the time of his Memorial. I heard it was lovely,sad,memorable, with many stories shared in love about Bob. I bless you who are his family and all of you who feel this loss so deeply. I will be back and hope to share with you again. Bob helped me change my life for the better. I have been seeing him for twenty-five years...The correct spelling of my last name is Maycock...Blessed Be… Continue